Each time I am faced with a challenge, I think of the analogy to carrots, eggs, and coffee beans in boiling water. The carrot enters the water strong, tough, and firm, but once it is in boiling water, it will become soft and easily mashed.
The egg has a fragile shell and its liquid insides easily spread thin. After being boiled in water, the outer shell requires more force to crack, and what was once liquid is now hardened.
A coffee bean gains strength and hardness from the tree. It likes tropical weather with lots of rain, the thin air in the mountains, and the warm sun. The bean needs boiling water to become a cup of coffee.
When faced with a challenge, struggle, or problem, Initially, I am like the cooked carrot that weakens and loses resolve. I do become firmer and more resolute, like the hard-boiled egg. As I reach acceptance, I do become the coffee bean that tries to be a better person and rise to a higher level.
My current challenge is adult-onset macular degeneration. I have had it for about 8 years, but now it is advancing. Writing, reading, and watching television are each more difficult. I have not been as active on my blog, supportive of other blogs I follow, nor read as many books. I went through the grieving process and came to acceptance of my new life. Therefore, I am making changes on my computer, using very large fonts in my Kindle, and having better time management. Your prayers and understanding are appreciated.
KAREN INGALLS, AUTHOR, BLOGGER & SURVIVOR 
I am so sorry you are dealing with this, Karen. I love the story though and how we deal with adversity is spot on. Sending healing hugs and hope it stops progressing. Xo
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Your prayers are most welcome and appreciated. And, I embrace and love your hugs of healing.
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Sending hugs and love you way, Karen! I wish there were a way to reverse the symptoms. As you have done with the other trials you have dealt with, you are working through this with courage and grace. Praying the degenerative process stops (or slows down) so you can continue to enjoy reading and writing. XOXO
Yvette M Calleiro 🙂
http://yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com
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Your prayers and words of encouragement mean a lot to me, Yvette. Thank you!
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Karen, I’m so sorry that the situation has progressed as it has, but I know your faith will sustain you. You have such a strong spirit, and have faced adversity before. Remember the “Footsteps” prayer. The Lord will carry you through all difficulty. I know He is close to you now. ❤️
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The “Footsteps” prayer is a powerful one that I have thought about for many years. Mae, thank you for your words of comfort and encouragement.
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You inspire us by your actions to adapt to your latest challenge. Prayers that you continue to not accept the limitations that your disease may foster upon you. Thanks for sharing, Karen. ❤️
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Your words of encouragement and support mean a lot to me. Thank you!
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I am so sorry you are dealing with this health issue, Karen. But I love your attitude and resilience. It’s what we do when faced with a hard challenge, isn’t it? Sending up prayers for you, my friend.
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Jan, each of us faces adversity and grieve in our own way. Thank you for your prayers. They mean a lot to me.
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Oh, dear Karen, I’m so sorry that you have macular degeneration. What a painful cross to bear! Your beautiful heart, bound with courage and determination, inspires all who know you. You’re the embodiment of survivor — but also of love. I always know you are nearby — even if I don’t see your comments on blogs. Take good care of yourself and know that your writing friends love you and hold you in much esteem. You’re an inspiration to all. ❤️🤗❤️
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Thank you for your kind words and support. They mean a lot to me.
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